Also if the therapy and therapist is overly sensitive and gentle then the client will tend to hyper sensitise and become ‘worse’ in that sense
The person who flees the scene of an accident or the hit and run driver has the flight response.
As any child therapist knows the ‘client’ is the child and the parent child relationship. They are a package deal.
You can’t keep lying to a group of people and not expect them to work that out.